All the things that I love best, all the thougths I put to rest in tiny beds of paper sheets with lines of blue and black and brown
Tuesday, December 11, 2012
Must Try Harder
Class has not been able to make any progress whatsoever on yesterday's puzzle.
Wondering now whether task was too difficult. Will try and propose it at a later time, hoping to see at least some results.
I find myself dumbfounded. This, of course, does not mean that I usually know what to say. But in this particular situation I am, alas, powerless. Stuck between a rock and a hard place, as it were.
"Go with your gut" - does not help. My gut is as likely to be as much help here as a car mechanic in an emergency room.
Of course, strictly speaking, naturally it is not ME I am talking about here. It is all hypothetical.
We are moving in the realm of ideas and scenarios. Cases, if you will.
So going back to yesterday's cryptic musings:
Fact: the cheater has cheated.
Fact: the cheater has not told.
Argument: the cheater has thus lied twice, by cheating in the first place and by omission.
Counter-argument: it's for the best, what the other doesn't know won't hurt them.
Argument: the cheater needs to tell, no good comes from lying.
Counter-argument: it's for the best, what the other doesn't know won't hurt them.
See the problem?
Now what if we'd introduce a different aspect, like the cheater is acting out of spite and whishes to hurt the other party. In so doing, the cheater hopes to find relief, clearing of his conscience and the possibility of sharing a certain burden of responsibility. All at the expense of the other - the alleged victim.
But what if the victim is not so much that but a partner in crime? What if they are equally to blame for the situation that has arisen?
Clearly, I have watched too much "The Good Wife".
Good show, though. Takes your mind off things.
Unfortunately, not always and never quite.
Session adjourned.
P.S. Must get a gavel... (I hope you're reading this, Santa.)
Monday, December 10, 2012
Believe me sir, you want this to stay hypothetical...
Once in a while one finds oneself in a bit of a dilemma. We've all been there.
So what is one to do?
Men: carry on regardless, letting silence reign
Women: share, ventilate, get outside advice and/or second opinion
No, there's no third option. Believe me, I'd have taken it if there'd been one.
To add to the fun we will say that, hypothetically, a person has cheated/lied. Is this person to confess and tell whomever they have cheated on / lied to? Would this make things better or worse? And this depends on what?
You see today's class has hit a wall...
Input anyone?
So what is one to do?
Men: carry on regardless, letting silence reign
Women: share, ventilate, get outside advice and/or second opinion
No, there's no third option. Believe me, I'd have taken it if there'd been one.
To add to the fun we will say that, hypothetically, a person has cheated/lied. Is this person to confess and tell whomever they have cheated on / lied to? Would this make things better or worse? And this depends on what?
You see today's class has hit a wall...
Input anyone?
Sunday, December 9, 2012
The Ticket
According to James Norman Hall, "loafing is the most productive part of a writer’s life".
True.
Tuesday, December 4, 2012
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